Why don't you start "dating" again?? Send her some flowers with a nice card. Ask her out ~ take her to dinner & a movie. If there's some place to go dancing where you live, also go there. Do like you 'used' to do when you were dating her. Or think back when you were a teenager -- treat her like that. Open her car door for her -- be a real gentleman. That oughta shock her. LOL

You can have lots of fun with this and it ought to put some zing into things. It doesn't have to stop with one night either. If both of you can remember what it USED to be like, I think you both will put more effort into it, but get it started with dating. Hugs, Lee