Yes we understand Misty. Sometimes it is very hard and things change so fast and that causes so much confusion. It is like a line of dominoes that gets started and gets very hard to stop. Sometimes it is hard to know what steps to take.

Is it possible to stay and pm? Are you safe?

I am not so sure who is saying you can change any time and all that. Change is always a process that sometimes goes smoothly and sometimes causes pain. The most important thing to remember is that your change will happen as it should when it should and for others to say it is wrong or too slow or fast or whatever is just bull.

Trust you and yours they are who has kept you safe all these years. You can do this. You are survivors as is witnessed by the fact that you are here.