I feel I HAVE to give something back to people. I will do the ordinary stuff ie make cup's of tea's, send a funny text to cheer them up etc...

I have in the past few years

1. Wrote nice sentimental cards showing how grateful I am for having friends as friends

2. Took friends out for Lunch or Dinner and paid

3. Bought gifts for friends

They all say I am bonkers for the last 2. I feel obliged. I feel no matter what I do or say I can not repay them for being my friends etc