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Originally Posted by IceCreamKid
Thank you for your response. I think you make perfect sense. When she whinges and moans and/or stays away 'sick', I know I'll be too busy working doing my job and hers to let it bother me. I so agree with you that I have no control over her, and if I left the impression I wanted control over her, that was my mistake. I would like some control over me, however. I see my course of action now. Thanks again.
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I am glad I could help, I know for me personally I've had times where I've internalized the conflicts that co-workers have involved me in.
Just to clarify, I didn't mean to imply that you wanted control over her, I just meant it in terms of you helping yourself begin to distance yourself from her drama.
I know for myself, if I remind myself that I can't control how a person acts towards me, I can only control how I act towards them, it helps me put things in perspective.
Anyway take care and good luck.