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Originally Posted by happycheeks
I told my brother I'm bisexual because I was in on a website and I was going to put bisexual as who I like. I know it was wrong but oh well. When I told him it was like he didn't want me to be a bisexual and it was like he was disgusted. I might as well tell my family... He even told me I'm a pervert because I'm a bisexual. How does liking girls make me a pervert? :'( Should I just stay straight? Please don't tell me off  I feel kind of sad and bad now |
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi.
I am bi myself, it has not made me into a pervert, I am quite happily in a 3.5 year relationship with my partner (we just recently moved in together!
) My partner is also bi. No we don't cheat on each other, and neither of us are 'slutty' or 'can't choose between one sex or the other'.
Why do I have to say this? Because so many people don't get it, and buy into all kinds of ridiculous ideas about what people are like. When I came out to my mother, she thought I meant that I had to always be with both a guy and a girl
at the same time!
Bottom line, being bi just means you have the potential to be attracted to guys or girls, in the same way that a straight or gay person only has the potential to be attracted to one or the other. You may have a preference of one over the other, you may not.
Don't let your brother's misconceptions about bi people influence you because that's all they are - misconceptions. I've had fulfilling relationships with both guys and girls - you can too. Ultimately, follow your own heart, wherever it may lead you. Good luck