I understand your feeling of isolation and of being trapped... with no control over your own life... unable to feel like you are being seen and heard as you are... and you feel very afraid and alone... and don't know what to do to free yourself of the dilemma you are in... In short, you are stuck and don't know what to do to get un-stuck...

Tamika... please hear this and believe me... it is important that you do so... Ok?

What you are feeling is not you just being dramatic or weird... not even a little bit . You are a human being with human emotions. You have a good, VALID reason to feel as you do. You are not less of a person for feeling as you do. What you feel is real, and you have a real reason to feel as you do.

So... there it is...

The next question, the BIG question is, "Ok, NOW what? How do you come to terms with what's going on in your life and what you can do to come to terms with what you are feeling?... In short, how do you fix the mess that you see yourself in..."

Does that pretty much sum it up?