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at one time in my previous marriage we went to counseling. what was recommened and we did it that way was for each of us have a separate counselor. at some point then we met with both counselors together...me, husband, both counselors. it helped because each of us could discuss our own concerns privately and then together. two counselors viewpoints about the dynamics of our marriage helped. this scenario works if both counselors are willing to communicate re both partners and then together.
hope this helps.
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