I expect all parents hate it at some point or another. It changes your entire life. My sister hates not being able to go to the bar whenever she wants or just go out without worrying about a babysitter or whatever. She also hates being a minivan mom lol

I would never assume someone saying they hate parenthood means they hate their kids. I hate being an adult (except that I can drink legally) but that doesn't mean I hate my life. I want to have kids someday but I know right now I would hate it. I know myself too well to bring an innocent kid into my insane life. Hopefully when things slow down (that should be an IF) I won't hate it too bad. But some people are just born for it and some aren't. I wouldn't say you're a bad person for saying that though.