Parsifal,

Just another thought. If your girlfriend has cut off contact with you for now, that is a lonely place for you to be in. I'm afraid that it's no good trying to guess what's going on with her; now is a good time to work on your own situation, and coming to this forum is a really good place to start.

Being available for another person without putting pressure on them is a hard act, there's no denying it, and it takes quite a bit of maturity. IMHO you've done the right thing sharing your concerns with us.

Good thoughts, M