hi oregon, hi curlyq,

thanks for your posts. i'm glad to hear from others who are not as skeptical as me.

i live a lot of my life in my head, because i've never had a real intimate relationship with anyone "in real life", including my family. so, i can create any kind of life i want. for many years, i dreamed that i would be with one true love, no cheating, not even the thought of it.

anyways, my sister seems to actually be doing better without her husband. he's starting to give her less and less money (only $20 this week), and is showing less interest in taking his son for the day on Saturdays. my sister seems happier without her husband around. i could never understand why they got married in the first place. i thought i knew my sister, but apparently not very well.

anyways, thanks for giving me some hope. i'm feeling old these days and don't see myself getting married anyway, but i just thought it was weird that my mom, after being married for almost 50 years to one man, would say that about her husband (about straying).

take care everybuddy. thanks again for sharing...

splash