Dear Violetmoons ~ Mercy, dearheart ~ it sounds like you're trying to save everyone. I hope it's not family that is in trouble. I'm a "fixer" too -- At least I used to be. I always wanted to "fix" what was wrong with my loved ones -- try to point them in the right direction and cure all their hurts. I found out that I cannot be responsible for everyone. It's too painful -- plus I'm doing them more harm by not trusting them enough to take care of themselves. I've got to let them make their own mistakes - and pick themselves back up and try again.

And you're right - you can't trust everyone. We've all been hurt by someone we trusted that we shouldn't have.

Please just take care of YOU. When you're ok, the world will seem better. God bless. Hugs, Lee