Good morning,
I'm in Univerity now and have only a short break,so I can't stay long.
I know for sure that I would hate for my family to lose face. As you said, here in our culture, "face" plays a great part. But there's also another problem. Some time ago, there was a huge problem with my sisters, my big sisters. My mom found out, and my sisters covered for me, saying that I knew nothing about anything. So, my mom now trusts me more than ever. Whenever, something goes wrong, she'd come ask mebecause she knew I'd say the truth. I don't mind that, but now she expects even more of me. She told my dad that I would have no problem taking Architecture because I would do anything that would help our family. And that's true, but 5 yers is a really long time. And what I'm saying is so random; one time I'm talking about culture, then I'm suddenly talking about home issues :P. LOL, I guess I'm just cool :P
Thanks for everything