I find it interesting that therapists will ask, "Let me know what I can do for you." Aren't we confused enough already? That's one of the reasons why we see a T - to help us understand what we need. So far, my T has provided what I have needed and I don't even know what she's doing. I can't put my finger on it but maybe it's just having a safe place to talk. I don't know. But she has never asked me "What can I do for you?"