Thanks Leed
You made me laugh....Thanks...I really needed that....It's really useless talking to her....She get so upset....but last night, I told her that I don't want to talk to this dude in Vancouver....She told me last week about this guy and once I said "but he's in Vancouver and I'm in California!"....She flipped....then I didn't continue....last night she called me at 11pm to get my email address to pass it to the mother of the guy....geez....and she's not telling me why she wants my email....I said mom he lives in Vancouver and I dont' see myself to leave my well paid job in California and live in rainy Vancouver! She got angry....and I figured out she doesn't get it....So, I told her to stay away from all these...and it's none of her business....I'm old enough to make my decisions....She said she would not try to find me anybody anymore.....I said "GOOD"....but I know her she said that to punish me, and I know her very soon she will start again....hehehe.....then she said she's going to call my older sister....I know she's going to bug her and then my sister will be on my case....oh boy....
I've been married once and it was a disaster....I don't want to repeat that life anymore....I know if I'm not fully interested in the guy, then nothing will work....
I do online dating here and there, but still no luck.....It's not like I'm sitting at home and doing nothing to find a mate, but it takes time....and I don't want to settle for a less....
I'm glad that you are not in an abusive relationship....I can't even imagine to be with a guy who is so controlling....That's horrible