Lex I am sorry he is being a creep and sorry to read this...I will be honest and say I have never read much GOOD about this guy...maybe you oughta move away from him he sounds unreasonable and selfish..you do not deserve this...Do not go where you know you will be uncomfortable...From all you have posted on this dude he sounds toxic sorry to be blunt but that is all I have read about him

hugs