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Feb 22, 2011, 03:43 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ Your current bf must know that things aren't going too well -- so I doubt he'd be too surprised to hear that you're leaving unless you've hidden your unhappiness really well!  Usually it's not hard to see when two people aren't getting on too well.
You might just sit him down and be honest -- just tell him that the relationship hasn't been the best - and you think it would be best if you and the kids left. I think you said that these are HIS kids -- if so, you're going to have to set up a good visitation schedule for him to see the kids. if he doesn't come, it's HIS fault. But make sure you file for child support!! it doesn't matter if you want it or not -- the kids NEED it.
I hope he doesn't get violent - if you suspect he will, call a cop BEFORE you tell him and have him there when you do. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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