(((lexi))) We've already talked about you keeping this person as a b/f. It sounds like he really doesn't understand you...

You know what is in your best interest. You can give yourself permission to say, "NO." That can be "NO!" "No thank you." "Are you out of your ever lovin' mind NO?"

There's no problem with saying that you aren't going to do this or that. That's what we waited to become adults for: making our own decisions.
Please take care of yourself.