Hi, I think - and I am sure you know, your T is right. The way forward is by taking this couragous step and moving into socialising and meeting people. Otherwise he wins all over. Having said that - do give yourself time. Do not feel like you have to rush yourself. It takes time to move beyond the trauma and heal. There is no need to feel like you have to do something. The only thing you have to do is be good to yourself. Look after yourself and remember you are worth it.

I understand you feel you have no closure - its like - all this happened and now what? But I believe that we are able to give closure to ourselves through understanding that what happened is in the past and now you are healing. Its as simple as that.

You are doing well. It takes a lot to get through all this, including the court. In time you will feel stronger. Remind yourself you are safe now and you are allowed to live your life happily and successfully.

Hugs xxx