[QUOTE=Eileen2010;1721559]just wanted to say I hear you. I don't respond a lot, because I am stupid, and my advice is lame. I don't want to make things worse for people. But I just realized not responding can even be worse sometimes, so I will try harder.

(((((((Eileen)))))))) I am sure that you are neither *stupid* or *lame*, but clearly, I can relate to feeling both of those things about myself.