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Old Feb 22, 2011, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted by griffinp View Post
Thanks for the responses.

Christina, I appreciate your listing all those wants/needs. It helps me to see that my needs are normal. I tend to feel like what I need is too big for anyone to provide.

I really hate the question "what can I do for you?" I appreciate that she wants to help, but I have the same reaction to that question as I do in session when she asks "what do you need today?" I just have NO idea. Truly. That question makes me feel so lost.

Who knows....this could be the best week of my life. There's no telling.
If I had a nickel for every time a T has asked for "what can I do for you" or "what do you want" or "what do you want to achieve" etc, I'd be rich.

Whatever you figure out that you need is normal. Unless you're asking for a million dollars, which would still be normal but would be a little hard to get.

I hope everything goes okay.
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Thanks for this!
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