I grew up with the idea that Cinderella and Prince Charming lived happily ever after. How about when you live crappily ever after?

It seems that after the attempt at marriage counseling that my marriage continues going down the drain. I still love my husband and I know he loves me. I truely fell that anyone who said love is enough has never been in my situation. When you live with a person who you love so much you won't kick them to the curb. If there is a criminal charge for child neglect why isn't there one for spousal neglect??

It is in each person a certain set of base needs. Things we need from the people we love. When a spouse doesn't meet those needs then what?

Any one know this feeling and can give helpful advice....PLEASE POST!!