I think the title of your post says it all- you are being pushed BEYOND your limits. there is no reason that will justify that. it's not okay hun. those are decisions that you are going to have to make, and it can be great to have someone cheering you on but for one, he isn't "cheering" and two, it's all within you personal limits... the party for ex., if you're not comfortable going you shouldn't have to. he can't make you, you have to stand up for yourself though and say NO. you have to do what is in your best interests, not what he thinks is in your best interest or what would make him or someone else happy.. the fact is, even if you were to go along and do all of those things, don't you think he'd come up w/ something else to "fix" tomorrow? he's not being supportive at all. pls don't cut.... this isn't your fault in any way..