I'm here, jenna.
I am going through a similar thing, well, exactly the same minus the supportive partner. Mine is clueless or pretends to be clueless.

I am a bit unable to type right now...I am so numb.....I always am after, well, you know. I don't want to trigger you again.

But I'm here...crud, I already said that...but if you need to talk let me know. I'm on the other side of the planet though (literally, not just mentally) so the time difference may suck, but I can only try....

Be good to yourself ok? And I'll try too.