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Originally Posted by rainbow8
What hurts, and I know it's so stupid, is my disappointment that my T is "not the one". Duh. Of course I know that, and I know about transference, and I even told her that I know she can't replace my mother. But I wish she could. I HATE that she can't. I don't want to grieve for my mother. It seems like I care more about my T than for my mother, though that's not true.
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It is hard work trying to make your T be your mother, isn't it? Do you really want to do it? What if you didn't have to do that any more? What if you could be you, and not have to hold up your mother, or make your T into your mother?
