My husband has a female coworker who he is, what I believe, in a emotional relationship with. He is extremely defensive of this relationship with her. When I told him I felt as though he respected her more than I, he said he did respect her more. They share personal issues, she divorced her husband shortly after he started to work with her (20 years now) and she remains single to this day. (Waiting for someone to become available?) They have gone on trips together, taken classes together and work together every day. I am very insecure over this, but when I try to address it, he tells me I am over reacting, a jelous wife, and it ends up in a fight. I am tired of being beat-up emotionally over her. I cant stand to be around her when I have to go into my husbands work place. But she always trys to be so nice to me, like she wants to be my buddy. Theres so much more to this story, but I hope this briefing offers enough information for someone to help me. Thank you for any help.