I hope so...I have been contemplating this all day and I think that I am just going to make the move with my son to my parents place for awhile and let my husband stay in the house till it's sold...it's easier than arguing with him about it even if I think it would better for our son not to have to move twice the fact of the matter is that putting my husband back in close quarters with his parents would not be good for his current mental state and neither of us can afford to maintain an apartment and half our mortgage so it's definitely a parents house for one of us...I just need to get out of this house...at this point even when we are not arguing he is still throwing around snide comments that I know my son hears and understands more than he thinks...I went downstairs where he was today and he and a friend were talking about how "every woman in this town is no good...they are all (expletive starting with a B)." I had to bite my tongue clean off not to say something. I'm just so afraid that he is going to somehow get custody from me...I know it's unlikely but if he goes in slandering me all over the place about this inappropriate relationship I had with my friend (even though we never slept together or anything and decided we couldn't talk anymore because we had feelings for each other that had no place in my life right now) I just don't know that I have the heart to turn the tables and detail his rages, his drug use, all of his issues and the reasons I want out of this to being with or even that I should go there....I don't want to drag my son through all of that. I just feel so guilty for having these feelings for my friend and that is why I decided to he honest and tell my husband about them but now I think that maybe I shouldn't have because he is just going to use it to hurt our son and what did it accomplish anyway as I had already decided to leave? Sometime I just don't think things through....arrgghh I'm so frustrated...every time I try to do the right thing I just make things worse.....