hi Home, welcome.

I understand not knowing who you are, or having an identity. I kind of absorb my surrounds and become what people want.

It is significant because you need to know who YOU are first, the real you. I have a wonderful T who is there for me. I called him at 2am on New Year's eve, and didn't remember doing it...........I checked my phone and I had indeed called him.

Keep trying to find a person that genuinely cares, and by all means, please keep posting here. We're a good group of caring people.

Mary Alice