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Feb 23, 2011, 06:06 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ It sounds to me like he has a very fragile ego. Of COURSE he's not wrong - to be wrong would mean he's "defective" in his mind. Admitting that YOU paid for dinners would mean that he's not a "gentleman" or he's a "miser" or a 'cheapskate.' He doesn't want to embarrass himself. 
And to do any housework would totally emasculate him -- that's women work!!! LOL Are you sure you're not messing around with my ex??? LOL
I don't know how you'd EVER change a man like that -- you CAN'T. I lived with my ex for 26 years, and he never changed one little bit even tho we fought about his idiocyncracies often enough.  He wouldn't budge -- he was right about everything and that was that. I would print out PROOF of things, but he was still right. 
So you either put up with it, or you leave. Simple as that. I'm sorry you have to deal with it. I just about snatched myself bald. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
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