It sounds like you have a trustworthy companion in your T, but I find it unbelievable you have his phone number, let alone able to call him @ 2 am! I couldn't get 911 then if I were dying. It must be nice to have another person like that. My wife listens, but is having problems relating anymore, that is why I am inquiring about a T for myself. I despiratly wanted to join a support or therapy group, but it is simply non-existant.
I can't imagine a T that close, and not expect favors back.
Just how close are you?
Tom S.