I'm not sure how old you are, but this doesn't change. I'm 36 and finally told my family today that there is no way they could ever truly understand what life is like with my 10 yr old. My mom gives me self help books on disciplining my children, but my 10 year old has Tourette Syndrome, ADHD, OCD, bipolar and ODD. We have no discipline. I myself have depression. I feel like I'm going to explode and my family and friends don't get it at all. I'm not sure who to talk to, but I need to talk. I'm pretty new here and can't get on much, but I like being in "familiar" territory. I've read so many posts that feel and sound like me. Like someone understands.