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Originally Posted by inbloom
I think that where I am at really mirrors alot of what's been discussed here recently....specifically in terms of the pain and sadness associated with T not being "the one" and with the reality that the relationship has limits and boundaries......(I think that my words to T today were verbatim, "I HATE boundaries!!!"
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You articulated that really well. I understood exactly what you were feeling. I am in that wierd "boundary" place right now. Trying to find a safe place to be close and dependent, yet guarded and limited. I'm afraid to give so much of myself away and not get the support I need...the boundaries scare me.
Take care of yourself 
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