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Old Feb 24, 2011, 08:16 AM
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hi daisy, justme, but my husband had these traits and it controlled my life. i "lost" myself due to his viewpoint about himself as it pertained to me. he became both emotionally and physically abusive to me over time. can't say this would happen to you but i'd consider how you feel about this one-sided relationship.
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