Me and my bf go through the same things. He's a clean freak. I keep things clean, but don't spaz out about it if it's not. I guess what you really have to think about is if you want to keep receiving this type of abuse just for love, ya know?

Love is a really great thing, don't get me wrong, but you have to consider how much hurt you are receiving from her. I guess I should take my own advice. I know this is a hard thing to think about. I wish you all the best of luck.