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_Sky said:

Don't remind them.
Don't harass them.
Don't intimidate them.
Don't tell others what happened.
Let them save face.
Remind yourself that you have forgiven them (remind yourself as often as you need to!)


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And if you have to forgive to your husbind/wife? Are the rules the same?