Just like everything in life, sometimes you have to distance yourself to gain perspective....I know why I value you all so much....The true gift of this site is people from all walks of life sharing their struggles...And when you share them with me, and I respond, it gives me a new perspective on my own life. My problems turn into monsters when I view them on my own...but when I see the courage that everyone on site displays when they open up and share...I suddenly have more resources to deal with my own. Thank you all for allowing me to share your challenges.....You enrich my life and you definitely improve my perspective....Grace