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Originally Posted by Can't Stop Crying
I said ouch and pulled away, biting my lip to keep from crying out...he said, "did I hurt you?" and did not stop.....
me too, I think he triggers me on purpose sometimes so I'll just disappear and leave my body there for him
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If that the case, then I take back some of what I wrote before. I think he needs counseling. What would he say if you said "no sex unless you respect my boundaries"?
I'm wondering if seeing a partner in a bit of discomfort is appealing to 'some' men - I put some in quotations, to not include all men. Thinking it comes from that typical porn movie scenario where the guy is 'too much to handle' for that inexperienced partner'...trying not to be too graphic.
He needs to take this seriously. Someone should ask him "would he like his mother or sister to be treated like this"?