(((Tomi))) hon I know how hard this must be on you. I have a SIL very much the same way your dil is. I hope and pray that everything will be ok. It is never easy to go thru anything like this and with conflict makes it even worse. It still amazes me every day people can be so mean with family members. especially their own parents. I will say and extra prayer for you and your family tonight. Love you bunches hon. pm if you need to talk