I wish I could edit my post, but I can't, no Edit button.. too much time has passed?

I want to add a clarification, because after a while I realized what I have written is not good. I would never be asking anyone to subject themselves to sex when they don't want. That would be just soooo wrong.

I should have left it at mentioning the fact that oxytocin tends to stimulate loving emotions and is seen are beneficial in relationship building (it also is a hormone secreted when a woman is breast feeding, btw, and strengthens the bond with the baby) and leave it up to you whether you want to do anything with that tidbit of data or not. To go beyond that was uncalled for. Please forgive me.

I was trying to suggest that perhaps organizing a romantic evening and gentle foreplay may help feelings between you, but I am afraid it came across quite badly.