those are great questions to ask your T. They are important to you and your therapy, not random or silly in the least. And you deserve answers to them, because they aren't boundary-crossing in any way.

My T strayed into some trauma history a couple of weeks ago, and it crushed me. I am a totally shy non talker...but the following week I pushed myself to ask if we could look at our treatment plan (agreed and signed by both of us after about 3 sessions). Sure enough, trauma work was not on there, it listed my social phobia, contact phobia and "learning how to communicate verbally". It was really important that I was able to get him to refocus on the issues I am there to work on.