Thanks, Eileen -- my most recent T (maybe former T? we never formally "broke up") did the same thing to me -- refused to continue working until I got into a DBT group -- so I stopped going to him while I worked on getting into a group (and im still working on it -what a nightmare) I figured it wasnt worth paying $100 a week to have the same argument over and over and over..........I've been considering going to the T before this one, but I got very upset over a comment he made and all the screwing around he was doing with my insurance (when I had insurance) it got so bad I made arrangements to not go thru my insurance....and they submitted it anyway and got paid twice for the sessions! I'm just so lost right now.......