yeah i know. I want to try to do that and treat people with respect. I think maybe I have talked down to some people...

I know one lady in particular started acting weird around me after I "talked back" to her when I was stating my opinion about something that was different than her opinion when we were having an event she had helped plan. I don't know if sometimes I say things or am too opinionated and don't do it very tactfully. that might have offended her.