I'm intereseted to hear everyone's thoughts on this too. I think I have the same problem. Its not a sexual thing, in some ways I think its a need for approval from a nurturing figure. My mother was never very nurturing when I was a child and I think I look for that nurturing and attention from my therapist.....I think its called transfererence?

For me, I sometimes fight with the fact that I am recovering as I don't want to leave therapy.....probably not the best thing to do! Maybe your arguments are a way of staying in therapy, therefore staying close to your T and getting the attention you need? Just a thought....