Hello embracinglife,

If I may...

Don't try too hard. You don't need to bear your soul or reveal any of your vulnerabilities that you might not feel comfortable with revealing. Take it very slowly and one step at a time. Let the others you're with lead the way. Let them know how you feel, that you aren't at ease about getting too close too fast, but that you would like to get to know them better. If they are worthy of you, they will respect your space and will allow you to move at your own pace. Connecting with another person is not something that can be forced. Be mindful of your own feelings and of the mindset and feelings of the person you are with. If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't... But when it feels right... you won't fear sharing your mind with another person... But do nothing before it feels right to you. Establishing trust takes time. The person you're with must show that they are worthy of your trust...