Sunna, I just wanted to let you know that in my opinion, there was nothing wrong with your first post. I have heard that sex is like eating. If you don't eat, you don't want to do eat (this is how we can go all day and forget to eat). And it's the same with sex. Sometimes you do have to just do it and once you start doing it, you'll start to enjoy it, and then you get back on track.

I understood where you were coming from and I just wanted to let you know that I don't think you were as out of line as you thought you were. But that is also just my opinion and others could be thinking completely differently.

I also realize that Saluki said she can't force herself to get in the mood for sex, so perhaps this isn't an option for her right now. Saluki, maybe you need to try things like cuddling, holding hands, and long hugs. Make little connections throughout the day.