this guy sounds scary, self centered, narcisistic. i'd run, not walk away from him. his texting behavior sounds obsessive and controlling. question-what about your marriage may be unfulfilling to you?
i'm assuming this seems flattering to you but he's committed and you're committed to other ppl. i'd focus on my relationship with hubby and let roberto fly. sounds like he's got several chicks lined up already and you'd just be in the line anyway. overly charismatic ppl are a red flag for me. i would use caution with roberto, mho.
hope this helps.
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