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Originally Posted by happycheeks
I told my brother I'm bisexual because I was in on a website and I was going to put bisexual as who I like. I know it was wrong but oh well. When I told him it was like he didn't want me to be a bisexual and it was like he was disgusted. I might as well tell my family... He even told me I'm a pervert because I'm a bisexual. How does liking girls make me a pervert? :'( Should I just stay straight? Please don't tell me off  I feel kind of sad and bad now |
There is nothing wrong in your being attracted to both men and women, nor in experiencing different kinds of relationship and finding what feels right for you.
There is much more acceptance of gay men and lesbians than a few decades ago, but many people still do not understand and react according to stereotyped ideas about what it is to be lesbian or bisexual. If you want to identify yourself as bisexual, you must be prepared for some negative reactions, like your brother's. The upside is that it will open the door to relationships with others who feel the same as you.
Life is all too short, and youth even shorter. Enjoy your sexuality, live your life to the max and never be ashamed of who you are. It takes courage at times, but it is better to experience life fully than be constrained by the opinions of others and look back with regret on missed opportunities.
You will have better and stronger relationships by being who you are than by pretending to be who you are not. Good luck Happycheeks
