OMG, I've only just read this post now. I'm so sorry!

You must be so torn! The hurt of what your DIL, son, and hubby have done, the way they treated you. So frustrating for you. At the same time, you're worried about the baby and son. There seems to be a 'love - hate' going on. You love your family, but you hate the way they treat you and each other (ie. DIL and son). I'm praying for all of you. ((((((((((((tomi))))))))))