treehouse! That is hilarious. I have asked the same question. I put it in the subject line of an email. I also asked her if she was "banging her head against the wall when she reads my emails", "am I driving you slap dab nutty!" and "am I getting on your nerves?"

Sailboat~as to your question: I think you should ask anything you need to know (that is within the boundaries of therapy). Your therapist should be open and honest enough to answer them. If you still get a bad vibe, I would go to someone else.