I posted a response, but deleted it. Not sure if you had a chance to read it. Maybe sometimes I just need to let you know I am reading your posts. I don't always have the answer, so maybe I should keep quiet.

I am following you and totally understand where you are coming from. We seem to be in the same boat so many times. I think we should pack some snacks and drinks (soda) because we seem to get on this boat alot!Sometimes we don't have any idea how long we will be in it, so we might as well bring some food to keep us from starving to death!

I am not making light of your pain at all. Humor is just one way to cope with pain. I hope that I didn't offend you.