Hello Artie,

I totally understand your frustration when it comes to people not believing you when you try to relate how and what you feel, what you perceive, and what you're experiencing. I've had family members tell me what yours have, that it's all a bid for attention, and that I was exaggerating or overstating my circumstances. I'd often tell them how wrong they were because I wasn't interested in the type of attention they thought I was, i.e. pity, as you mentioned. I have other means by which I can get your attention, so why would I put myself through x or y or claim z if I didn't have to, I'd say.

Fortunately, those accusations have lessened and virtually disappeared for me, and I can only hope for the same for you over time, and with more open minds on the part of your family. From what I've read in your post, I hope you are able to make everything work for you that you'd mentioned, so life will be easier.

I believe you, and I know for certain I am not the only one here who does. All the best to you, Artie, and please keep us posted.